PROS AND CONS OF HAVING A CHINESE GIRLFRIEND
If you are reading this article then you are most likely very interested in dating Asian women and Chinese women in particular. You are probably wondering what are the upsides and downsides to having a Chinese girlfriend. We are here to help make things clear for you. Before we get to that, when you are looking to date someone from a different culture, it is important to know your character well. Can you adjust to new ways of thinking? New holidays, the language barrier issue that may occur?
PRO: Most Chinese Women Love the Simple Life
What that is is a family, a loving partner and financial stability. At the beginning of the relationship you won’t notice this pro much but when the relationship becomes more serious then the focus really becomes clear.
CON: You Will Be Looke at as Financially Successful
If you come from the west, no matter what western country it is, you are seen as financially successful. There are plenty of misconceptions about westerners in the Chinese culture.
PRO: Honesty is Highly Valued
This ties into the previous point. Although there are plenty misconceptions about foreigners, you don’t need to act like someone you are not. Honesty is very important there as it is anywhere. Only the consequences of lying are bigger. If you aren’t well off it wouldn’t hurt to mention it to your girlfriend and her family. They won’t cast you aside if they hear it if you show that you are ready to work hard for your future family.
CON: Women Can Be After Something Different
Because of this myth that every foreigner is well off, there are some women who want to meet just for the financial stability part of the relationship. There may be no feelings involved here. Also the more better off you are the more attractive you are going to be to these ladies. These are not the kind of people you want to spend time with.
PRO: You and Your Family Will be Well Taken Care Of
The Chinese culture is still very conservative and while the women do get a good education, their main focus in life will still be taking care of their family. So you are in luck, you and your family will be very well taken care of once you get a Chinese girlfriend.