There are different kinds of Dating Gurus who offer different dating tips or love advice. Some advice might sound awkward or weird, some tips may sound straight to the point, some may even sound accurate (just what you needed to hear) but let’s be honest and say that not all dating advice from these so called experts work.
BUT, for today’s post, we are not going to focus on that. On the contrary, we will be focusing on the opposite of that — love advice or dating tips that have already been tested and proven. You might want to get a pen and a paper for this because here are 5 solid dating tips from Dating Gurus that you must remember.
Dating tip #1: “Married people are a great resource”
This, of course, only applies to the percentage of women that want to have a serious relationship and then eventually settle down. If you’re within that demographic and are reading this now then this might be one to note down.
If you’ve been set-up on a date by friends, family, and co-workers and all of them did not go so well, why not try asking a married couple to fix you up with someone? Think about it! Married couples know what it takes for a relationship to work and they might know someone who’s as married-oriented as you.
Dating tip #2: “If he’s not calling you, it’s because you are not on his mind”
You might be familiar with this dating tip and this author since his book, “He’s just not that into you” has received a lot of attention– some negative but mostly positive.
This may be hard to understand since most women are actually very optimistic but it is the hard truth and the truth will set you free from waiting for 2 hours next to the telephone.
Dating tip #3: “…if he’s not ready for a serious relationship, he’s going to treat you like sports fish.”
This is another dating book that has caused a roar in the dating scene. A lot of men have been saying that Steve Harvey has betrayed the sacred brotherhood of men by telling women their secrets.
With this dating tip for women, you have to remember (and this is in Steve Harvey’s book) to think like a man! If you’re looking for something short-term and if you don’t mind being treated like a “trophy” or “sport fish” then by all means but if you’re the opposite, then ditch the dude.
Dating tip #4: “When you live life with him or without him, that is when he will accept and value you for who you are”
Sherry Argov’s book is chuck full of motivation for self-respect and independence. And, this is what this dating tip for women is all about. Remember that you don’t have to make YOUR world revolve around HIM.
Dating tip #5: “No-Time-Frame Dating allows men to date you, have sex with you, be monogamous with you, and still never marry you.”
Now this dating tip from a well known dating guru is all about women closing their doors of opportunity. Lauren Frances tells her readers to identify what they want in the relationship, speak up and go through a filtering process with the men that you date.
Set a goal, follow it and then be vocal about it so you won’t waste your time on dating one man after the other and still repeating the same things that you did not want in the previous relationship.